It is a myth that "homeschooled" children are weird. Yes, it is true that some people who homeschool their children are weird, but have you looked around at the public school? I see "weird" people every day. And they might think the same when looking my way. Children are primarily socialized by their parents. As much as we would like to blame others for our children's "weirdness," it probably comes back to us :) So at least it is my own fault if I ruin my children!
Children educated at home can be beautifully socialized. Sitting in a classroom of 30 other students each day isn't what does it. It is being involved in their community, cub scouts, soccer, ballet, going to the store, talking with adults, library visits, having friends over, going to friends' houses, church activities and services, being a part of a family, and oh so much more. This can happen whether your child is in public school, or school at home. It is through living life. When homeschooling, you may be able to enrich their life even more just because the quantity of hours opens up so many windows of opportunity! 40 more hours with them each week! (which can be scary too----but worth it!)
I know socialization is a huge fear for parents that are humoring the idea of "homeschooling." Will my children be normal? Will they have friends? Will we become social recluses? Just remember, public school for the masses hasn't been around that long. Generations and generations of "normal" people have been educated at home, privately tutored, etc. etc.
Your children will be normal. They will spend their quantity of hours not only learning and gaining an amazing education, but building deep relationships with you and their siblings. When else do we have to learn how to live together as a family? And I mean REALLY live together, not just cross paths by sleeping under the same roof!
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